When Someone Asks You to Pray
“I urge you, brothers, by our Lord Jesus Christ and by the love of the Spirit, to join me in my struggle by praying to God for me.” – Romans 15:30
Dear Friends,
In Paul’s letter to the Romans, he closes by asking the Church at Rome to pray for him. He asks specifically that they pray that he will be rescued from the unbelievers in Judea where he was headed with money for the church in Jerusalem. He asks them to pray that his gift is acceptable to the saints in Jerusalem. And finally, he asks them to pray that by God’s will, he will be able to visit them soon.
I am often asked by friends and family to pray for them or for a loved one. Recently, a member of my church called me to ask if I would pray for her sister. Upon making the request, she apologized for bothering me with her concerns. I assured her that it was an honor, not a bother to pray for her sister.
This reminded me of a cartoon I saw in which a man sees his friend Bob coming toward him. He thinks to himself, “Oh great! Here comes Bob. I told him I would pray for him.” Then he says a quick prayer in is head, “Dear God, help Bob. Amen.” As he meets his friend he reaches out his hand and says, “Hey Bob, been praying for you!”
It is easy to tell someone we will pray for them when asked, but it is easier still to forget to follow through. When this happens we can end up like the character in the cartoon and the next time we see the person we remember the promise we had made. We may feel guilty or we may give a half-hearted prayer to cover our promise.
Prayer is a serious business and it should be handled with reverence. As a believer, it is a privilege to approach the throne of grace in prayer. Prayer is not only a privilege, but also a duty of the believer and if we fail to fulfill our promise of prayer to another we are delinquent in that duty.
One of my seminary instructors gave the class a wonderful piece of advice one evening, which I will pass on to you now. He warned us of the importance of agreeing to pray for someone. He said that if ever anyone asks you to pray for him or her that we should write it down immediately and as soon as possible, begin praying for that person.
This is sound advice to live by. If someone asks you to pray for them, write it down immediately and begin praying as soon as possible. Pray through out the day keeping that person in your thoughts continuously before God.
Being asked to pray for someone is an honor and is not to be taken lightly. When asked to pray for someone, be sincere in your promise and lift that person up to God Almighty
In Christ,
David